So, I was at the grocery store today and as I was getting out of my car I saw a strikingly handsome man. He was FINE! As he stepped out of his Mercedes Benz (looked to be a 2006) I noticed that he looked really clean, and I checked out his shoes. Why the shoes? Because if a man steps out of a car that nice and looks that good, pay close attention to the shoes. If they are busted, or run over then there is a great likely hood that this isn't his car dues to the fact that there looks to be more miles on his shoes...than the car. Now this is not always the case, and there is more complexity and theory on determining a mans character by the shoes that he wears, however that another blog in itself. HOWEVER, the point is, He's looking all good and and hoping to God that I can get close enough to see his hand....people marry young now days. Ya know...just close enough to give him the eye contact that says, "Its OK to come over and say hello." So he gets out the car and I'm trying to give him "the look", but then something strange happens. He goes around to the other side of the car and opens the door. So I'm like, "Damn! he with his girl!" When he opens the door this God awful, Popped, hideous creature emerges from the car. I'm thinking, "This HAS to be his sister!" Then I started praying, "Father God PLEASE LET THIS BE HIS SISTER....IN THE NAME OF JESUS!!!" And I know that everybody thinking what I'm thinking too...lol. Cuz yall know good and well that it usually is a sibling if he/she is fine and they walking with a creature. Sadly this was not the case. He grabbed her by the hand and walked proudly with this thing...i mean his girl, and was a complete gentleman. He opened every door for her...and every woman walking behind her. So I'm standing there STUCK. So I had to dissect this thing. I had to figure out the logic behind all of this madness! I said to myself, "well maybe shes a really nice educated girl on the inside." Just when I said that she looks at some white lady for bumping into her and says in the loudest, GHETTOEST, I live on 51st and state street and I'm about to pay for his groceries with my link card voice, "DAMN! I SWEAR TO GOD! PEOPLE NEED TO WATCH WHERE THE HELL THEY GOIN!!!" As tries to calm her down (Now i can tell from the way he's talking that he's the educated one) she wont let up. She continues," NAW! HELL NAW....HER ASS SAW ME!"...then she makes it official that she from the projects when the white lady continues to stare at her, obviously scared, and the girl says the line that all ghetto hoes say, "BOO BOOP! IS IT SOMETHIN ON MY FACE? I MEAN DAMN!" So im rolling by now! I thinking that this guy is gonna be embarrassed. He just grabbed hold of her hand and continued to walk in the store. So my idea that the girl may have been beautiful on the inside was ruled out. I left the store confused. All that i could think was, "Life isnt Fair!!" I mean, here is this handsome, sexy, seemingly educated (and he looked to be financially stable...thats a plus!) man with this ghetto zombie! Sadly, this isnt the first time i've seen this! Why do all of the good wholesome guys get with these bucket ass females! It makes you go home and look at yourself in the mirror for about two hours trying to figure out what the hell is wrong with you. It seems that attractive and smart doesn't cut it now days. I think guys are starting to look for women that they dont have to protect because she scaring criminals away, a girl that can open a corona bottle with her teeth, a chick that know how to break into your car when you lock your keys in there, and girl that can take YOU to the shooting range, chicks that carry razor blades in they mouth and dont even take it out when yall eating dinner, a chick whose age is her credit score! I mean DAMN! You wonder what you are doing wrong. You start thinking crazy shit like.."Maybe if I dont get braces he'll call me." lol...why is this people?! There are many possibilities....my first theory is that Maybe this guy has been hurt by the attractive and educated type. Maybe I'd remind him of a girl that he once knew. Maybe he feels that the attractive, educated woman is only focused on that...being attractive and educated; and can't give him the attention that he needs. Shes a bit too independent. She knows that he should feel as if its a blessing to even be with her, so she acts as such. School and work always comes first, and she is never compromising. She may even always NEED some shit. Thats a possibility.
Another possibility is that Ugly, dumb, ghetto chicks dont require much maintenance. Maybe the reason that he was driving that luxury car is because ugly, dumb girls dont mind taking the bus....hence, he saves on gas! She catches the 352 to his crib late a night, cooks him a romantic dinner (Ramen Noodles and sausages, with sauteed onions), they have passionate sex, and because she live on the low ends and gotta be at Walgreen's in the morning for work she gets up to leave. He says, "Babe, you need me to take you?" She says, "Naw! Boy please! You know I got this 30 day bus pass!" Now the both of them are happy. He can get some and go to sleep, and i guess shes happy because...she got a 30 day bus pass?? An attractive, educated woman wouldn't have went! 4am or not your gonna hear it! He doesnt even get a chance to ask her if she need a ride cuz she already starting in on his ass," Dude what the hell you think this is?! You know my car in the shop. You betta get yo ass up and take me home...the fuck!" This Could be a possibility as well.
Both possibilities could be the reason why this fine man was with... the lochness monster. My mind pondered numerous possibilities. Im sure i could talk about this subject all day...but i wanna know what you think. Why do Attractive and overall wholesome individuals date ugly, ghetto ass, scrub ass, popped ass individuals? Whats really good??
Thursday, September 3, 2009
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LMAO! I've been trying to find the answer to this question for years. I just can't quite figure out why this strange natural phenomenon occurs... Another thing I've been trying to figure out is why in the world do men love to be with the female that causes them the most issues. If the female treats them like shit, nags them, argues constantly, and just has an overall nasty attitude the more they seem to be attracted to her. girl IDK...when you find out let me know!
ReplyDeleteInteresting. The possibilities are endless here, however although brotha' man was nice looking, well dressed, driving a nice whip, polite and attempting to keep the peace doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't have some ugliness on the inside. Maybe this was sistah's off day? Maybe she was sick, had a death in the family etc etc etc. The world will neva' know. But I do admit that oftentimes I'll see someone that I consider attractive with someone and think - I'm better looking, more educated, etc than she. Some days, I can take it and some days I can't. On the days I can take it - I simply note that I can't judge a book by its cover and not getting what you want/think you want at times is a good thing....because it/he/she is not meant for you.
ReplyDeleteOne reason for why he's with this girl is because he can probably live up to all of her standards, in which case she probably has NONE! If he were with an attractive, educated woman who didnt take any mess then he probably would have no idea what to do or how to handle any given situation. The girl is probably weak-minded and whatever he does is like "THEE BOMB DIGGITY!" lol Naw burt men get comfortable not having to actually work for anything special. Thats what I think.. they get lazy and settle.
ReplyDeleteOk I think that we are missing something here. Eihter he loves the girl or thats the type of female that holds his interest. I Mean she can be a beast in the bedroom or shes the comfort he needs after he has along day. You can not judge her because she is trashy. I mean sure the man from the way you wrote is all that and a bag of chips (lol). But we are on the outside looking in. So there is no telling what she offers her man that makes him stay. If he didnt want her ugly ass he would leave.
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