THE DEFINITION OF A WHORE IS???? .....

Ok...What is the definition of a whore? hoe? slut? When it comes to this subject, many view points differ. There are many answers to this question....

Growing up, I used to agree that if a woman slept with numerous men, then she was a whore, or easy. That's the way that I was brought up, and that's what I was persuaded to believe. However, after growing up, experiencing life, and meeting a few REAL hoes....this opinion has changed. I believe that being a "hoe" is a lifestyle/state of mind. Its the way you carry yourself, interact with the opposite sex, as well as your outlook on sex in general. A hoe, has sex without evaluating the consequences and it is more of a sport instead of an act of intimacy. A hoe goes out in search for "the D***K", and when its all said and done if the guy don't call the next day...the she on to the next. A hoe will "SMASH THE HOMMIE" with no remorse, and wont even see the problem with it. A hoe doesn't expect anything from her sex partner but an orgasm....and maybe some bus fair to get home. lol. A hoe is ALWAYS ready for anything! She keeps a condom, some baby wipes, ad a Altoid in her purse just in case something pop off! A hoe, doesn't care that she's a hoe...she accepts it. Now...that's just one breed of hoe.

The next breed of hoe is tricky hoe! lol... this is Ms. Independent hoe..."I have sex with men because im secure with my sexuality, and If men can do it, why cant I??" This is a hoe that has made hoeism to seem a bit more classy. This is the hoe that at heart knows she is a hoe...but needs good justification for being so. This is the hoe that don't think shes a hoe, just because she doesnt accept money, or gifts in exchange for the sex (Naw...that just doesn't make you a prostitute...lol). Now I personally know few of the Ms. Independent hoes....they cool people...you just gotta give them a reality check sometimes like, "G...you a hoe. (lol) You aint even know cuz!" This breed of hoe will trick you because she aint your stereotypical hoe....she can conceal them hoe tendencies beneath the latest fashions, and looking just a bit more classy....to the average eye. However..I can respect this hoe a bit more than the first breed of hoe, because she knows how to throw you off her trail...lol. I dont care how independent you are....when the # of sexual partners you have is like twice your age...Im sure that a few people consider you a hoe.

Now the third breed of hoe will often times not be labeled as a hoe to most. This is due to the fact that this hoe is so oblivious to the fact that she is a hoe. No...honestly...she is....whole hearted...she doesn't know. She is the type that only has sex with men if she feels a connection....and what makes her a hoe is the fact that she feels that connection almost every damn weekend..lol. She really means well at heart, but shes an emotionally connected hoe. lol.

I am by no means judging ANYONE! I think that peoples personal life, and sexual decisions should be left up to them. I just feel that women need to realize that SOMEBODY in this world is gonna think your a whore no matter how many people you have had sex with. Also, WHO you choose to have sex with that helps you receive the hoe badge of Merritt...lol. I know women who have only had sex with 1 guy...and will forever be known as a hoe (sad). If the guy your sleeping with thinks your a hoe.....im more than sure that he will feel compelled to share this view of you with the world. Its also about establishing morals and expectations out of every sexual encounter. When you put yourself out there like a hoe....then you are treated and labeled as such. When you allow what goes on in your bedroom to be seen in the streets, then don't be surprised if you're forever wearing a scarlet letter on your chest. Its old school to say this...but the safest way to not be talked about...it to not give em' nothing to talk about. And yes...everybody has a freak deep down on the inside...its all about how often you choose to unleash it. Some people choose every weekend with different partners...and some people wait until their married. The choice is yours! But at the end of the day, know who you are and what you can handle! As i always say...stay in your lane. And that's real...lemme know what you think! Especially my fellahs!!! :-)



P.S. (The image up top is funny to me...lmao!! Don't take offense please!...unless your mom is really a whore...then I apologize...my condolences....lol)